Wounded Healer

 *Nag Tibba*  We reached Patwari from where we had to take a tempo upto the campsite along quite a rickety road ..so in we got into the back ( trying to emulate Bpllywood movies :p) and Bjorn,- Irams golden retriver clambered in behind us drooling all over the place .. The kids ran close on our heels until we took them in as well ... so we took the bone-rattling ride upto the campsite along the winding hill roads with the breath taking views .. and Bjorn's strong hairy tail literally wagging in our faces ...and we all felt quite adventurous .. kids were also quite thrilled by the ride The colourful tents pitched on the hill top cheered us up greatly n then we sat around sipping tea chatting and watching the beautiful sunset ...the kids playing fetch with Bjorn and he entertaining them tirelessly ..he was so adorable and energetic  and a remarkably well behaved dog !  As night fell and the dark skies came alive with the shimmering stars - the stat gazing sessions star...

T his 32 year old man comes from Haridwar , declaring he has been using anabolic steroids at his gym for last 4 years.. and has completely stopped having erections etc ever since he stopped using them since last 6 months  …a common scenario .. gonadal suppression due to high dose exogenous anabolic steroids and testosterone … but I check his testosterone and that is in the normal range.  I tell him the axis has recovered and most of his issue is now psychological. But he is frantic as he plans on getting  married in the next couple of months ! I ask him if he has a sexual partner. He says he does .. I ask him – is this the woman you intend to marry ? he says – no no this one is already married .. how can he marry her .lol I suppress my smile and tell him “ fine if you are comfortable with her you can work on your confidence with her “  Then he pauses and looks down and  - : he asks me if I have seen the movie – Desi boyz and my eyes widen with curiosity .. Gigol...

 I had a young pretty  girl come to me for some menstrual issues etc ..Some stress for the last 2 years in her life and I could see her blanch when she spoke about it ....and her periods had gone astray...   and I am about to hand her the prescription when she abruptly blurts out- I have never experienced an orgasm !   And I am a little taken aback at first ...but then I recover as I realize she is really hoping to hear a solution from me ...so I tell her its not a hormonal issue for sure ..but then i realize shes looking for something else - woman to woman understanding ... And I can actually feel an acute empathy for her at having missed such a marvellous beautiful uplifting experience ...for such a long time in her life ...to the point that she was left wondering if she will ever know the ultimate pleasure...I could see it pained her ..   So now I try to break it down   The first thing I  ask her in a very systematic manner is - ...